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The only way you can be sure you’ve succeeded on the Escalator is when neither of you has sex with anyone else, and then someone dies. — Mari Helena, solo poly
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It’s common for people to discuss cheating as something that unfortunately happens. In contrast, knowing that one’s partner is having sex with, or falling in love with, someone else — and being okay with that? Actually negotiating nonmonogamy? Agreeing to it? Maybe even meeting or befriending their other partners? That’s where the shaming and freakouts tend to start.
