Sexy community is a network of people, connected through naked intimacy that results from spaces that have erotic potential—a group based on sexual connection, erotic possibility, and sexual kinship. Sexy community doesn’t require sex to always be happening. In fact, these spaces must be hybrid, with sexuality taking place alongside swapping stories or menial gossip. Sexy communities have real consequences. They connect people across boundaries such as race. Sexy community is a lesson straight society could learn from queers.

