Instead of calling white people out from a stance of self-righteous anger or from an ego-driven desire to be seen as the “good white,” I am far more likely today to move into the conversation from a compassionate place because I recognize in myself what they have said or done. I no longer have to attack them in order to deny I have done the very same behaviors. I now have the
not sure how I feel about compassion here. Like there is a LOT between "attacking then" and "deep compassion" where more appropriate responses exist.
