The moral of the story is threefold: First, as an angel, you need to document and fight for your rights. Be candid with people about why they should respect your rights and make clear the ramifications of them not respecting you. In most cases, people will apologize for whacking you in your privates and claim it was inadvertent. You’ll forgive them, even though it might have been intentional, and everyone will move on with a deeper and more trusted relationship.
