I am confident that this approach can work for everyone, whatever their lifestyle: wouldn’t it be a fine world if we all made it a point to honor and cherish and openly value every person we make a connection with? I live in the country, and I feel this same kind of heart-opening love when I walk on a beach or look at the world from the top of a small mountain or discover, around some bend in a trail, a two-thousand-year-old tree standing in majesty. I feel no desperation, nor any desire to cling. I just feel happy.