selfishness, and our kids are no different. Often, some of the most infuriating behaviors that end up in our basket, especially if we have older kids, are words they say or actions they take based on a selfish attitude that’s permeating their lives. While these problems can seem the most deeply engrained and difficult to shift, there’s an antidote to attitude, a reset switch that can help rewire pervasive selfishness: service.