“Apologize for not loving him better. He will tell you that you could not have loved him more, which is true, but you need to tell him that anyway.” My initial reaction: Really? Apologize for not loving him more? When it came to my relationship with Kit, I was sorry about a lot of things—like how my lack of willpower forced him to hide any and all snacks he brought into our apartment, like the time I wore his favorite white Armani Exchange dress shirt to work without his permission after he specifically said it was the one piece of his wardrobe he did not want me co-opting, like how my raging
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