capable of preserving the best of each season while rejecting the worst. The human heart is shockingly resilient. By choice or by force, people grow and evolve, which can be incredibly healthy but not always met with approval. We usually like others, and sometimes even ourselves, to remain the same, treading the familiar paths, the ones we know, the ones we’re used to. Change makes us nervous in general. It is so tempting to interpret new as an indictment against the old, but that is an incomplete story. Two thoughts: It is incredibly tempting to disparage people who didn’t “change” with us. I
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