Our answer to the question How are you? seems like such a small thing. But we must answer that question at least 10 times a day—and perhaps as many as 50. So it’s not a small thing at all. It’s a significant part of our daily conversations. When someone asks How are you? what do you say? Your answer is usually no more than a few words. And yet, that short response tells a lot about you—and your attitude. In fact, your

