Option B

by Sheryl Sandberg

Notes INTRODUCTION “No one ever told me”: C. S. Lewis, A Grief Observed (New York: Harper & Row, 1961). after losing a parent: See, for example, Timothy J. Biblarz and Greg Gottainer, “Family Structure and Children’s Success: A Comparison of Widowed and Divorced Single-Mother Families,” Journal of Marriage and Family 62 (2000): 533–48; Kenneth S. Kendler, Michael C. Neale, Ronald C. Kessler, et al., “Childhood Parental Loss and Adult Psychopathology in Women: A Twin Study Perspective,” Archives of General Psychiatry 49 (1992): 109–16; Jane D. McLeod, “Childhood Parental Loss and Adult Depression,” Journal of Health and Social Behavior 32 (1991): 205–20. by six months, more than half of people: George A. Bonanno, Camille B. Wortman, Darrin R. Lehman, et al., “Resilience to Loss and Chronic Grief: A Prospective Study from Preloss to 18-Months Postloss,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 83 (2002): 1150–64. For further evidence, see George A. Bonanno, The Other Side of Sadness: What the New Science of Bereavement Tells Us About Life After Loss (New York: Basic Books, 2010). To fight for change tomorrow: See Geoff DeVerteuil and Oleg Golubchikov, “Can Resilience Be Redeemed?,” City: Analysis of Urban Trends, Culture, Theory, Policy, Action 20 (2016): 143–51; Markus Keck and Patrick Sakdapolrak, “What Is Social Resilience? Lessons Learned and Ways Forward,” Erdkunde 67 (2013): 5–19. 1. BREATHING AGAIN “You must go on”: Samuel Beckett, The Unnamable (New York: Grove P...