How can we become open if we fear we are not open but want to be open? Be sure there is no unconfessed sin in your life (1 John 1:9). Be sure there is no bitterness or grudge against anyone (Eph. 4:31ff). Be sure you do not speak against anyone (James 3). Be sure you have a life of solid prayer and Bible reading (Luke 18:1; 2 Tim. 2:15). Walk in all the light God gives you (1 John 1:7). Learn to know the Spirit’s voice (Heb. 3:7–8). Develop a familiarity with His ways and the ability to recognize His presence (Heb. 3:10–11).
