“The problem is, I worry about cars hitting children in the parking lot.” Step Three: Ask for ideas “We need some ideas so we can go back to the park and have a good time without people getting mad or scared. What can we do?” Step Four: Decide which ideas you both like “So you like the idea of holding on to my sleeve and leading me to the playground. Let’s circle that one.” Step Five: Try out your solutions “Here we are at the parking lot. Grab my sleeve and show me which way to go!” • If nothing is working, you may have to reconsider your basic expectations. • Show respect for the conflict.
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