Judging people for things that seem “wrong.” Every single thing serves a purpose. The goal is not to create a seamless image, it’s to go through the experiences that need to grow and teach and change us. You don’t know that a completely wrong and illogical marriage is what someone really needs. You don’t know that there’s no element of fate or destiny involved in the birth of a child that seems young and for which the parents seem ill prepared. You don’t know that the people who seem to be doing nothing with their lives are gathering the knowledge and experience that will one day write the
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