Women who don’t want children are seen as selfish because they’d rather spend their money and time on themselves rather than on children who don’t even exist yet. That’s not even the primary reason many women opt out of having kids, but if it were, why would that be a problem? Wouldn’t it be more selfish to have kids if you know you’d rather spend the money on yourself? I don’t feel like guys get called “selfish” for making these decisions.