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You see, if you have a bad mindset, it doesn’t matter how successful you are with women. The second you get a negative signal from a girl, it can trigger a downward spiral. That’s because your confidence and self-worth will be dependent on the approval of women.
When you focus on getting approval, you live up to other people’s values. As you develop the mindset that “you are enough,” you start living up to your own values.
Bluntness isn’t exciting for women. The reason? When you’re blunt, you leave no room for intrigue. The fun is gone.
when it comes to flirting and teasing women, self-deprecation usually isn’t worth the laugh.
There are 3 main qualities you should keep in mind: 1) Dominance 2) Sociability 3) Altruism
You can have all the aspects that make a good story, but if you don’t tell it well, it won’t be a good story.
So I guess sometimes, you have to scare yourself a little bit. You have to destroy your life to let the next great thing happen.
women care more about the way you make them feel than your “stats” and accomplishments. That is the secret to connecting. When they feel that you understand this, they’ll relate to you more and mentally put you in the group of guys who “get it”.
As you appreciate her inner and outer beauty, you’ll be more in tune with your natural male instincts.