One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do. – Henry Ford When you focus on confronting and overcoming the fear, you’ll not only approach more women, but you’ll also grow as a man. You’ll realize, “I had these excuses. I had this story I was telling myself. But I approached her anyway. I did what I was afraid I couldn’t do.” – and it will feel awesome.