These are the types of qualities you want to showcase in your stories. Don’t worry about stuffing all of them in to every story. Aim to highlight 1-3. It Should Be About Something She’s Interested In This is where baiting comes into play. If she asks you about a topic relevant to your story, tell it then – that’s when it will have the most impact. For example, if she asks you, “How did you end up moving to Vietnam?” It Should End With a Bang Try to end with the impact. Wrap everything up and have some type of takeaway.