Overcoming the Need for Validation Deep down, most men believe they are inherently not “enough.” They need other things to complete them, whether it be women, money, fame, etc. (or some combination of those). They want to be respected by other men, and desired by attractive women. This leads to needy behavior, because they’re always trying to find the “missing piece.” This makes their conversations shallow, because they’re always trying to “get something” out of the other person. Here’s the thing: You will never find that missing piece. There will always be more to desire.
