You need to adjust your understanding of the risks, so that: Risk of approaching her: Potential awkward interaction with a girl you’ll probably never see again. So, 1-2 minutes of discomfort – a small risk. Risk of doing nothing: You miss out on a potential amazing connection and incredible sex with a woman you’re attracted to – a big risk. Risk of building the habit of not approaching: You signal to your subconscious that it’s “okay” not to approach women you’re interested in. In doing so, you miss out on other great girls in the future – another big risk.
