It is not easy to ignite self-consuming anger or to stoke it. It is equally difficult to grasp the pleasure that passes off as sorrow. It was also not easy to bear the sorrow that came out of the joy of loving Rama. Surmounting these dualities and liberating herself from Rama was proving to be arduous for Sita. Yet Sita made the effort. She continued to churn the stormy sea till it turned into an ocean of peace. Gradually peace pervaded Sita.