The first concrete move we’re making is to take turns popping in every afternoon to check that Grietje hasn’t left the hamster in the freezer. That was Grietje’s suggestion; she doesn’t actually have a hamster. Next we made lists, lots of lists. A list of names, roles, and telephone numbers. A list of things that have to be done on a daily basis. A list of things she should never do. A shopping list. A list of where things are and a detailed daily schedule. We’ll help where necessary. If she doesn’t remember or understand something, she’ll jot it down and ask us later. If it’s urgent, she’ll
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