I reply, “Great! One time is all it takes!” I feel confident in my response for one reason alone. The moment—the instant—that we open the door to a greater possibility of blessing in our lives, we change inside. There’s a shift. In that change, we can never go back . . . and why would we want to? Why would we ever choose to feel the feelings that hurt us in the long run if we can feel the feelings that heal us instead?