This is why they always tell you on airplanes that you have to put your oxygen mask on first before you help someone else with theirs. They have to remind us of this because it’s counterintuitive—unless you are a sociopath, it’s your nature to help. Few things light up the human heart like helping/bringing joy to others. Trust in the fact that when you’re well taken care of financially, you’ll be even more poised, and inspired, to spread the love.