When you have a crappy attitude, it’s usually because you want attention, to be heard, for other people to consider your needs first and foremost: I was wronged! That guy cut me off! This is hard! It’s unfair! Feel sorry for me! Feel my pain! When you choose freedom and happiness over wanting to be right or to be seen, you win. Get out of victim mode, remember everyone is just as obsessed with themselves and their own feelings as you are with yours, and stop taking everything personally.