And it’s not just more stuff, it’s all the big scary stuff that we’ve been too wimpy to do up until now and it’s all so big and crazy and suddenly you feel like, Holy crap, I can’t move. Seriously, I think something happened to my arms, I can’t lift them. . . . And then, once again, mastering your mindset comes to the rescue. Overwhelm, just like calm, is a state of mind, and all you have to do is choose which party you’re going to attend.