Think of it like this: Let’s say you live in a neighborhood with lots of kids and you bake a batch of cookies and hand them out. Some kids are so wrapped up in their play that they wolf them down without giving it much thought, some kids whine about wanting seconds, but there’s one kid who shows deep appreciation. He’s grateful for the cookie, for the gesture, for your big ole heart, he helps you clean the kitchen, refill your bird feeder, set up your iPhone. He’s the kid who gets as many cookies as he wants and gets to lick the bowl. He’s met your energy of giving with his energy