To be clear, I’m not suggesting we should all simply “think positive” and ignore real underlying concerns. If you can’t find a “want to” in some particular facet of your life, then that could be a sign that change is in order. If you entered your field because you wanted to make a difference in the world but your company is focused more on the bottom line, it may be time to switch jobs. Or if you’ve come to realize that your significant other is not the person you thought he was, you might need to seek a new relationship. Finding a “want to” is not about forcing any particular choice; it’s
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