Conscious effort inhibits and “jams” the automatic creative mechanism. The reason some people are self-conscious and awkward in social situations is simply that they are too consciously concerned, too anxious, to do the right thing. They are painfully conscious of every move they make. Every action is “thought-out.” Every word spoken is calculated for its effect. We speak of such persons as “inhibited,” and rightly so. But it would be more true were we to say that the “person” is not inhibited; but that the person has “inhibited” his own creative mechanism. If these people could “let go,” stop
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You know how to talk. You know how to hold a good conversation. So stop overthinking it. Pass the convo over to the subconscious and reep the rewards
