“Would you go into a man’s office with your hand out like a beggar, and beg for a dime for a cup of coffee?” “Certainly not.” “Can’t you see that you are doing essentially the same thing, when you go in overly concerned with whether or not he will approve of you? Can’t you see that you have your hand out—literally begging for his approval and acceptance of you as a person?”
I wouldnt ask someone or beg them to like me. So why do that mentally.
