To her, manners are what separated us from animals and allowed us to take “the first baby steps” en route to becoming civilized super-cooperators. Indeed, she thinks manners may have paved the way for “the great leap forward,” an explosion of creativity fifty thousand years ago manifested by specialized hunting tools, jewelry, cave paintings, and other innovations—the first signs that humans were sharing knowledge and skills and working together productively. Manners set our species on the track toward progress, but to truly become civilized, humans needed a more elaborate code of conduct, one
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