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The way you talk about yourself and your life—your story—has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day experience.
Placing my attention on outcomes rather than on problems has made a world of difference. That one choice has had a powerful impact on every single area of my life.”
The shift from Victim to Creator takes place by focusing on what we want rather than what we don’t want, by moving from reacting to choosing outcomes and our responses to life experiences, and by reconnecting to our dreams and desires.
Transforming our relationship with Persecutors so that we see them as Challengers instead calls upon us to discern the learning and growth they spark.
The shift from Rescuer to Coach invites us to see the other as creative and resourceful, and to support him in the creation process by asking questions and facilitating his own clarification of envisioned outcomes, the current realities he faces, and possible Baby Steps for moving forward.
