People commonly think that the secret to a great relationship is communication, but it isn't. It's Compatibility. I can prove it. Imagine a couple that wakes up in the morning, shares a kiss, eats breakfast quietly while each reads a novel or newspaper, kisses goodbye, goes to work, returns home, eats dinner, watches TV, shares a goodnight kiss and goes to bed. (The kisses are optional.) They have done very little communicating because neither of them is very talkative. But they both value stability and companionship, and they love one another. I wouldn't want my marriage to be so bland. But
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