Do the choices I make take me closer to, or further from, the best version of me? When I am faced with conflict, how do I seek to act with courage? Are there things I absolutely require in a relationship, and do I communicate those things? In what ways do I care for myself? How do I care for the people around me? Can I respond to changes in my relationship with grace? Do I have problems that make it difficult for my partners to be with me? How do I seek to mitigate those? Do I let problems in the relationships around me affect me? How do I assert boundaries around problems that aren't mine?