When we open our hearts to multiple relationships, every now and then someone comes along who changes everything. This is one of the truths of polyamory rarely talked about: the game changer. A game changer is a relationship that causes us to rethink all our relationships, and maybe even our lives, entirely. It may be a relationship with someone who fits with us so naturally that the person raises the bar on what we want and need from other relationships. It may be a connection so profound that it causes us to look at our lives in a new way. It's a relationship that alters the landscape of
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