This will mean creating new categories in our minds, new files, to which we will move the matters that we previously placed in the category of “Right and Wrong.” One file might say, “Family Rules,” another, “Wisdom Issues,” another, “Hygiene,” another, “Good Manners.” I (J. D.) have at least three different “Good Manners” files: one for when I’m in America, one for when I’m among Khmer in Cambodia, and one for when I’m among tribal minorities in Cambodia. All three cultures care very much about appropriate manners, but the details are different.
