When you are falling in love, you take the initiative to discover a list of all the things that the loved one loves and hates. Then you go all out to say and do the things that delight him or her. You are “doing their will” rather than your own, but you gladly accept the new limits on your behavior. Why? It is because you have put your joy and happiness into the joy and happiness of the other. You are happy to the degree they are.
