As described earlier, the quest for honor was central in the ancient Mediterranean culture. As Bartchy states, “Among all social classes, traditional male socialization programmed males to pursue a never-ending quest for greater honor and influence.”38 Since honor for men was gained through domination of others, the husband would have been expected to dominate and be served by his wife.39 However, Paul states that he should instead do the opposite and exercise his headship through service and sacrifice.

