The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

so the next time someone asks, “Where are you?” give it more serious thought.

Kind of like ‘how are you?’ There’s the canned exchange, and there’s the rest of it, ‘how are you in your headspace’. Although most people aren’t asking about that last part.