The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

And if it doesn’t require you to be your authentic self, then it’s probably fake anyway. Whenever these alarms start going off, seek out Corner Four. Be honest about where you are and what you need when you get there. That’s where all the good stuff is.

what is my real authentic self?