The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

But the change he was seeing in his performance really was more outside of his control than he would have liked it to be. Like a lot of top leaders, he had a real love of being in control and structuring things. But getting better is not a solo act and not something that you can control.

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