The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

care. You found a pretty good way. One that a lot of high-output performers have depended on for eons: sex. And it works, for a while. The problem is that it never is enough to meet those unmet emotional needs, just sexual needs. You always need more, like a drug. And the other problem is that now it has real consequences for your life—your marriage, your