The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

having a standard and monitoring adherence to it. This kind of process check is essential for changing any behavior, especially the behavior that changes all other behavior—the ability to work together with others to improve. When our methods of getting better get better, we get better. Work on getting better for sure, but work on your methods of getting better, as well. You’ll be glad you did.