The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

In a Corner Four connection, the standards must be enforced. They create a protective barrier that keeps the system, the relationship, or the culture healthy. If you allow bad behavior, the entire system suffers. As Jim Blanchard told me, “People who violate the values really need to be somewhere else. If not, they really ruin what you are trying to accomplish.”