The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

But then there are the real superstars, the ones with enormous talent and brains who realize that they don’t have all it takes to get big things done but that everything they need to get them done does exist—in others. So they ask. They need. They embrace their need, and they connect from an authentic, vulnerable place. They grow. They learn. They thrive. I love getting to work with that kind of person. Be one of those, no matter where you are. Humble yourself. Head to Corner Four and seek someone who can meet the need that you have. Whether for emotional support, courage, wisdom, expertise, or pure community, go to Corner Four . . . and stay there.