The disconnection of Corner One can offer temporary relief, especially when you are under stress and things are not going well. It’s an easy retreat, but it’s also deceptive. Don’t get me wrong: Solitude can be incredibly fueling in and of itself, especially for introverts. The ability to be alone, comfortably and contentedly, is an important step toward emotional maturity and health. But solitude is not Corner One isolation. Isolation won’t give you a chance to refuel but merely offers a temporary escape. If you find yourself heading into Corner One as a way to avoid conflict and intimacy
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