The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it

by Henry Cloud

“Can we find a way that, when I let you know that something isn’t working for me, it doesn’t turn into a bad thing for us? I don’t want you to feel like I’m out to get you at all, ever. And at the same time, I need to feel like I can tell you what I need for you to do better. Let’s talk about the best way for me to do that.”