Frientimacy: How to Deepen Friendships for Lifelong Health and Happiness

by Shasta Nelson

BUILDERS are friends who motivate you, invest in your development, and truly want you to succeed—even if it means they have to go out on a limb for you. Builders won’t compete with you; they will be cheering for you all the way to the finish line. CHAMPIONS stand up for you and your beliefs, and they sing your praises. Champions are your strongest supporters, and they thrive on your accomplishments and happiness. COLLABORATORS are friends with similar interests—the basis for many great friendships. Shared interests are what often make collaborators lifelong friends, and those with whom you’re most likely to spend your time. COMPANIONS are always there for you, whatever the circumstances. You share a bond that is virtually unbreakable. Companions take pride in your relationship, and they will sacrifice for your benefit. CONNECTORS are the bridge-builders who help you get what you want. These friends get to know you and then instantly work to connect you with others who will share your interests or goals. ENERGIZERS are your fun friends who always boost your spirits and create more positive moments in your life. They pick you up when you’re down and can turn a good day into a great day. MIND-OPENERS expand your horizons and introduce you to new ideas, opportunities, cultures, and people. They challenge you to think in innovative ways and help you create positive change. Mind-Openers challenge conventional wisdom and allow you to express opinions that you might be uncomfortab...