Questions for Reflection When I’m Not Getting What I Want From a Friend • What am I really mad at? Is it my friend, or something else in my life? • Am I annoyed that my friend isn’t responding exactly as I want her to—am I expecting too much from her? Can I do a better job of asking for what I need? Or going to another friend? • Is my feeling of overgiving really the accurate picture, or is it possible that my friend gives in more ways than I can see right now? • If I am overgiving, is it because I’m not receiving enough, or because I’m giving too much?
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