Experiment with different types of stroking on different areas of the clitoris. You can try different pressures, speeds, and movements. If she pulls back at all, change it up. If she’s smiling, moaning, or writhing, chances are good you are doing things right. As a side note, make sure your nails aren’t sharp. Trimming your nails or getting a manicure may be the manliest thing you can do for your woman.