Then God restores us—the real us. Once we surrender ourselves, he gives us back our true selves. In fact, the most important journey any woman will take is the journey into becoming herself through the love of God. It is a journey that will require courage, faith, and above all a willingness to grow and to let go. The journey of becoming is one of increased self-awareness coupled with a surrender of self. It is a dance between choosing and yielding, desiring and relinquishing, trying and giving up.